AWM Career and Education: Education At Your Fingertips

My eleven year old daughter snuggled up to me this evening on the couch while I had my laptop going and research in full force. She asked what I was up to, and of course I replied, “Just working.” We started talking about this month’s magazine focus and I was so proud to hear her thoughts on it. A simple question from me, “What do you think I should write about,” and her opinion was non-stop! “Tell people how education is so important, momma. How it makes you a better person if you keep learning.” As a parent, this is by far what you want to hear from your child. I had such pride in listening to her talk about learning more and the importance of it. We all need to have such enthusiasm for learning.

When I talk about “learning,” I’m not necessarily referring to college or trade schools. Yes, they both are important after getting your high school diploma or GED, in order to progress in your life and get that fantastic job we all dream of. In addition to actual degrees from a university, college, or trade school, we find ourselves living this Army lifestyle that you wish just had a “how-to” manual. Within the past decade, the need for educating ourselves in our spouses’ employment is key to living happily and surviving stressful situations.

At every Army post you will find the Army Community Services (aka ACS.) Many soldiers and their families know this is where the fun can be found! Here you will find contact information for on post clubs, daycares, outings, and activities. The ACS can give you information on almost anything. It also offers a plethora of avenues to educate you about Army life, marriage, family, parenting, jobs, moving, finance, and the list goes on. It is literally all at your fingertips, just waiting to be absorbed.

Many spouses are confused and bitter when it comes to their soldier’s job. They do not know what the soldier does; nor do they understand why they work the hours they do. An FTX makes no sense to many. And why can’t they just tell that boss of theirs off and let the tension be gone? Whether you are new to the Army life or a seasoned senior spouse, if you have not taken at least one Army Family Team Building (aka AFTB) course, it is unfortunate. This is the “how-to” you’ve been looking for. And the great thing about attending a course is that you are with other spouses who are looking to learn, too. Plus, you’ll most likely walk away with a new friend!

The ACS has many departments within itself: Family Wellness, Finance, Family Advocacy, Relocation, and more. It is more than likely that you will find a resolution to your need here. The goal of the ACS is not only to assist the soldiers, but their family as well, by offering programs and services designed to meet the individual and community needs. You can locate playgroups for your children! Learn about finances and how to get them under a budget. Talk to a Family Wellness representative and partake in fun marriage courses to help you and your soldier communicate better. Get information about your next duty station, and moving tips to ease your upcoming PCS. Educate yourself in Army etiquette and policy. Find help in creating a resume and getting the job interview you want.

I could go on and on about the many programs the Army has to offer for the soldier and their family. And might I remind you they are free? Plus, you will find that childcare is offered for many courses. It is once again in your hands, though. You must take the initiative to want to learn more about this lifestyle we are in. I am repeating myself when I say that I like to learn something new every day, but it is so rewarding to feel so smart! The Army life can be a confusing one…a frustrating one. By educating ourselves on the small things, imagine our achievements when the big challenges arise.